DATING IN THE WORKPLACE

***FOUR TIPS ON DATING A CO-WORKER***

If you're lusting after a co-worker, you're not alone. A recent survey found that 40% of us have dated someone at work. And there are a lot of office parties around the holidays . . . But, there are STILL rules. Here are four important tips for dating a co-worker . . .

#1.) TEST THE WATERS. Before you make a move, it's probably a good idea to find out whether the person you like has ANY interest in you. If the two of you have been hanging out in the office a lot lately, make a joke about how people probably think you're dating. If you get a positive reaction, then the coast is clear to try flirting some more.

#2.) DON'T GET BUSTED. Once you've gotten together, keep it quiet. If it turns out to be a two-week fling, nobody needs to know. And don't talk about it ALL THE TIME. If it's all you talk about, your co-workers will pick up on it quickly.

- Even if you're discreet, they'll probably catch on eventually . . . but there's no need to broadcast it right away.

#3.) DON'T ANNOUNCE IT AT THE HOLIDAY PARTY. If you both decide to go, DON'T use it as an excuse to let everyone in on your big secret. Making a dramatic announcement will just get more people talking. So be discreet.

- Keep your hands to yourself, don't get drunk and don't be attached at the hip all night.

#4.) KNOW WHEN TO COME CLEAN. Most companies are okay with dating unless it's between supervisors and subordinates. But they might have rules about WHEN you have to tell them. Once things are serious, tell your boss before they hear it from someone else.(Cosmopolitan.com)