FIVE WAYS TO HAVE A GREAT CONVERSATION WITH A STRANGER:#1.) "WHAT DO YOU DO HERE?" Wherever you are, this gives the person a chance to talk about themself . . . and gives you a chance to learn A LOT about them. And when they talk, actually listen to what they say and ask follow-up questions.
#2.) "YOU HAVE AN AMAZING VOICE." This is good because it's complimenting something physical . . . WITHOUT being too sexual. You can also compliment their hair, eyes or smile. Just don't compliment something that sounds like a fetish . . . like their feet.
#3.) "WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU'RE NOT . . ." This shows you were listening when they talked about their job . . . and that you're interested in their hobbies.
#4.) "LET'S JUST SAY MATH WASN'T MY STRENGTH." It's good to admit a few minor weaknesses. It shows you have self confidence and self awareness. BUT . . . admitting more than a couple shows you have self-esteem issues.
#5.) "DID YOU READ/ HEAR ABOUT . . ." Talk about something you read or saw or experienced recently. Current events are perfect for an interesting conversation. Just avoid politics or religion, which are WAY too divisive. (Men's Health)
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