I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT!

***FOUR THINGS SINGLE PEOPLE HATE TO HEAR***

A lot of single people yap about how hard it is to find someone. And we're all sick of hearing it, right? The problem is, most single people get the same old advice over and over again. And it doesn't help.

Here are the four things single people hate to hear . . .

#1.) IF YOU SAY . . . "GET BACK OUT THERE" . . . They think you just don't understand single life. Single people don't hide out in their apartments all day. They go out with friends, they hit bars, they meet people, they flirt.

--So single people are actually more active than couples. So telling them to "get back out there" probably won't do much. Instead, brainstorm and try to come up with new places to meet other singles. Remember, not that many lasting relationships start at the bar.

#2.) IF YOU SAY . . . "YOU'RE BEING TOO PICKY" . . . They think you're saying they should settle for the next idiot that shows the least bit of interest . . . regardless of looks or personality. Saying they're being too picky WON'T make them LESS picky.

--It'll just make them angry . . . and kill their self-confidence.

#3.) IF YOU SAY . . . "MAYBE YOU'RE NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH" . . . They'll resent you for it. Even if they're NOT trying as hard as they can, they probably THINK they are. So it's better to encourage them than to imply that they're lazy.

#4.) IF YOU SAY . . . "MAYBE YOU'RE TRYING TOO HARD" . . . They'll just get frustrated. You're right that they can't FORCE a relationship to happen. But instead of telling them to stop trying, tell them to be patient. They'll find someone eventually. (Yahoo.com)