Wednesday, April 15, 2009

ARE GUYS CLUELESS?

IT'S OFFICIAL: MEN JUST DON'T GET SUBTLETY . . . IN FLIRTING:

Ladies . . . do you ever get the feeling that guys can't tell when you're FLIRTING with them? Well, according to a new study from Bucknell University, that makes total sense.

According to the study, women prefer it when men flirt with them by using subtle cues . . . like giving them a "coy smile", using body language or discussing common interests. And they assume that guys want the same thing.
But they couldn't be more wrong, because what guys REALLY want is a direct, no-nonsense approach . . . like an invitation to dinner, exchanging phone numbers, or asking straightforward questions like, "Do you want to do something later tonight?" Why? Because, in general, men have trouble picking up on subtle "hints". And if you leave it up to the guy . . . there's a pretty good chance he'll misunderstand your intentions.

A guy named Dr. Joel Wade led the study. He says, "The DIRECT indication of a possible date, as well as the HINT of a possible date, gives the man a CLEAR SIGNAL instead of sending mixed, non-verbal signals that the man must decipher . . . --"[Straightforward suggestions remove] any uncertainty regarding the outcome of the situation."
In other words . . . ladies . . . if you like a guy you probably need to spell it out for him. (Seduction Labs)

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