GO AHEAD, ASK HIM OUT

FIVE TIPS FOR ASKING A GUY OUT:

#1.) BE CONFIDENT AND CALM. Or, at least pretend to be. Even if it's your first time asking a guy out, he doesn't have to know.

#2.) DO IT CASUALLY. Look for an opening in the conversation that makes it seem like the idea came naturally. It's as simple as finding yourselves talking about a new movie you're both looking forward to seeing.

#3.) BE DIRECT AND SPECIFIC. Instead of asking, "Would you like to hang out sometime?" . . . have a date and an activity in mind.

#4.) KEEP IT SIMPLE. For a first date, casual and relaxed is better than something romantic. Dinner at your place should wait until something more substantial develops.

-If you're interested in seeing a movie, suggest a Sunday matinee, since Saturday-night dates are packed with expectations.

#5.) DON'T OVERWHELM HIM. Many guys are perfectly cool with . . . and even attracted to . . . the idea of a woman who will make the first move. But there are still guys out there who are more comfortable with traditional ways. If he's not receptive to your invitation and doesn't suggest an alternative, move on. If he DOES accept, the ball is in his court to ask you out for your second date. (Happen Magazine)