BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO

HERE ARE FOUR TIPS FOR HOW TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE . . . NICELY:

It stinks getting dumped. And breaking up with someone . . . especially when you don't want to hurt them . . . is almost just as difficult.

With that in mind, here are some tips to help you break up with someone . . . nicely.

#1.) Do it in private: You never know how someone is going to react to being dumped. Or maybe you do. Either way, you can spare your soon-to-be ex any unnecessary embarrassment . . . by letting the poor sap down in private.

#2.) Be kind and straightforward: Go with your gut, be compassionate and, most importantly, be HONEST. No one can fault you for being truthful. If you're not feeling the same connection anymore . . . then that's all you have to say.

#3.) Focus on the big picture: You probably need to explain the general reasons why your relationship should end. But does the guy really need to know that you hate his jokes . . . or that you think you can do better than him? Probably not.

#4.) Cut off all contact: Once you've broken up . . . don't call, don't email and . . . for the love of God . . . don't hook up with your ex. That's just asking for trouble. (Yahoo Shine)

-- Remember, you can do it!! Be strong!!