Tuesday, October 7, 2008

WHY DID HE DUMP ME?

HERE ARE FIVE REASONS WHY A GUY MIGHT BREAK UP WITH YOU . . . EVEN IF HE'S INTO YOU:

Ladies . . . tell me if this sounds familiar: You were seeing some guy for a few weeks and everything was going great . . . until, out of the blue, he told you it was over. You were probably hurt and confused . . . right? Well, here's a list of FIVE reasons why a guy might break things off . . . even if he's into you.

#1.) The timing is off. Women settle down with the guy they want to be with, regardless of the timing . . . but guys get serious with whoever they're dating, once they're ready to settle down.
--It sounds kind of random, right? But if a guy feels like he needs to graduate from school, or get a good job before he gets married, he won't stick around . . . even if you're perfect.

#2.) He's worried you'll turn into a monster. (Oh, I have been there!!) Guys are trained to fear that the woman they're dating will turn into a nagging shrew the moment he puts a ring on her finger.
--Sometimes the fear is rational . . . and sometimes it's not. In the end, it doesn't really matter, because if he's even the slightest bit worried it'll happen to YOU . . . chances are he'll cut you loose.

#3.) You're more into him than he's into you. Most guys will stay with a woman if she's fun and hot . . . even if he knows FOR SURE she's not the one.
--But if you tell a guy you love him and he doesn't feel the same way . . . he'll feel guilty and bolt.
#4.) He's more into you than you are into him. Guys don't want to feel like they're the "needy" one in a relationship . . . even if they are.
--If a guy doesn't think you're as into him as he is into you, he'll feel like he's lost control of his life . . . and he'll end it to save himself.

#5.) He's not done playing the field. Honestly, this is the real reason why a guy who's into you will break up with you about 99.9% of the time. It just is. --Most guys feel compelled to pad their resumes by having relations with lots of women. And, honestly, most guys think they can find someone better than the person they're dating . . . even if they can't. Sorry . . . but it's true. (Cosmopolitan)

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