FREIND OR FOE?

FIVE SIGNS YOU HAVE A "FRENEMY":

Have you ever heard the term "frenemy"? It means a friend who's so two-faced that they should actually be your ENEMY. And if you have one, you probably don't even know it. So here are five signs you have a "frenemy" . . .

#1.) YOUR FRIEND IS JEALOUS OF YOU. Jealousy isn't the same as envy. An ENVIOUS friend wants what you have, and turns to you for advice on how to get it. A JEALOUS friend wants what you have, and finds little ways to punish you for it.

#2.) YOUR FRIEND WASN'T THERE FOR YOU. You'll know you have a TRUE friend when something really bad happens. If your friend is there to support you when things get rough, it's a true friendship. If not, maybe they don't really care about you.

#3.) YOUR FRIEND IS DRAINING YOU. Good friends are supportive of each other. But if your friend is psychologically and emotionally draining, and doesn't offer much in return, it's probably a toxic friendship. Don't sacrifice YOUR sanity to save theirs.

#4.) YOUR FRIEND IS NICE TO YOU, BUT MEAN TO OTHER PEOPLE. It's a sign they could turn on you at any minute. Plus, do you really want to be friends with someone who treats other people like crap?

#5.) YOUR FRIEND BURDENS YOU WITH SECRETS. Friends share secrets. But if your friend constantly tells you things you don't want to know . . . like the details of an affair . . . it can weigh heavily on your conscience and cause a lot of undue stress. (Wowowow.com)