Tuesday, August 26, 2008

A BAD SIGN THAT MIGHT BE GOOD NEWS

***5 BAD FIRST DATE SIGNS . . . THAT MIGHT ACTUALLY BE GOOD THINGS***

First dates can be absolute torture. And writing someone off because of a bad first impression is easy. But here are five bad first date signs that might ACTUALLY mean you're sitting across from Mr. or Mrs. Right . . .

#1) YOUR DATE ISN'T YOUR TYPE. Don't write them off just yet. Remember, there are thousands of happy couples out there who weren't each other's type at first. But if the person you're with makes you feel good? Just go with it.

#2) YOUR DATE IS REALLY NERVOUS. Just because they're fidgeting, sweating or their hands are shaking doesn't mean they're not worth dating. Everyone gets nervous on first dates. And the fact that they're nervous may even mean that they really like you. (That's exactly how I felt on my 1st date with my wife.. Just ask her! - LOL!! - She ended up being my soul-mate.)

#3) THE DATE FEELS LIKE AN INTERVIEW. If your date is grilling you with questions, they might just be interested in you, but trying too hard. Make sure you ask questions about them too, and keep a good back-and-forth going.

#4) THEY'RE DATING OTHER PEOPLE. If your date says they're seeing other people, just appreciate their honesty. They're single. It's allowed. And being honest about it is a sign of maturity.

--If they tell you their last relationship ended because they couldn't STOP seeing other people . . . that's a red flag.

#5) YOU ARGUE. If your date disagrees with you about something and suddenly you're in a heated argument, it could just mean you're both passionate people engaged in the conversation. Try to embrace your differences and find some common ground. (Match.com)

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